It's Time for Love

Most of us have learned that love is a commodity. The fact that someone or not. What can be granted or withdrawn, lose or win.

So we will be dependent on others, we feel happy and secure. However, a relationship filled with fear and danger, because it can thank us for another person to give to our well-being. That is my definition of the state of love.

Unconditional love when we love, like a state of being with which we in our attitude to life, and how we in the world. This does not mean we are perfect, or not disgruntlements some difficulties and frustrations. However, we can choose to learn to solve problems in other ways, and was the source of our prosperity. That is our freedom.

When we at this point are a source, and not victims, we are not looking for love, or placing the responsibility on someone else to give us a good feeling about themselves and life.

First steps of the critical inner voice given, but simply, quietly, in order to fix it. Substituting the critical voice in the voice of "love from the inside" and thus the practice of our beloved.

Many of us justify the violence, in the hope that someone has treated us well! We are cruel to him in our thinking, our suffering to be increased and strengthened our conviction that we are unworthy of being loved or loved one. Instead, imagine that you say what a beautiful child, or lover. Consider giving her own good. Be kind and generous. Do you have patience and compassion. A simple rule is: "If you do not want you to talk with someone you love so you get a chance to talk to you this way."

Not so easy when the routine of evil. But in fact very simple.

So, to start now. Put your hand on your heart, and in silence or aloud, thanks to his name. Then you say: "I love you. I am here for you. I want you to be happy and at peace. I want you to have a good life. I care about you and support you. I'm sorry, how much it hurts. I do everything hard to be friendly, from now on will. Thank you.

This practice, which can be performed at any time, anywhere and on any day. No one knows what you think. Why do not you think that kindness, love and support? That's what they want and need, and we hope to love. Bring yourself. The source of their own comfort and peace.

And then the pen. As a beacon. We do not need to wait to fall in love. We can not "in love, and for energy. All I of the first hybrids. This type now. For the busboy, the examiner, the next person in the car for you, a passerby on the street. Of the sky, leaves, in the light in a shop window. Why wait a minute?

And if your slide to and to exercise self-forget. . . Once you catch it to stop and apologize.Apologize that you were injured, and I forgive you, starting to build with his own compassion for humanity and the inevitable mistakes that come with problems, with new capabilities. Then again.

This practice. Spiritual practices. You have to unlearn the old and finally beginning to get what they always wanted: the Amur. Therefore, you will gently. You are worthy of their obligations.

One thing to do, which is a very powerful thing is the starting point to change any aspect of your life.Built to love for you, from the center toward the edge.

And that is something no one can remove them.